Tuesday, 17 May 2016

Ciara loses big to Future in custody war

Ciara pictured above as she left the court house yesterday. TMZ reports below...
Ciara got shot down in a big way in custody court Monday ... TMZ has learned. Sources connected to the former couple say Ciara showed up in court asking for sole custody of their 1-year-old son, baby Future.
She claimed Future was a bad parent who was not present in the child's life. We're told she and her lawyer also trash talked Future to the judge, saying he was a bad person. For his part, Future showed up and asked for joint custody, and the judge was squarely on his side, rejecting her arguments. California courts favor joint custody, so the decision was in line with the law. We got Ciara leaving court, and she was mum.

How to Approach a Girl You Don’t Know and Impress Her

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Do you want to talk to a girl you don’t know? Here are 5 ways on how to approach a girl that will definitely help you make a great first impression.
Walking up to a girl you’ve never spoken to before is like taking a dip in icy water.
It makes you nervous.
Your heart starts beating faster than you can count.
And your stomach inches closer to your tongue with each step you take.
But as a guy, knowing how to approach a girl is one of the most important things to know in the dating world.
Now I’m not going to make this any more difficult that you already assume it to be.
Yes, talking to a girl who’s a stranger is not easy.
But then again, if you know just how to do it without appearing like you’re picking her up, you’ll realize just how easy the whole game can be.
How to approach a girl you don’t know
Forget pick up lines, forget bumping into her, and every other *smart* move you’ve heard.
I’ll teach you to keep it simple, and help you win her heart even before you say ‘hello’.
Here’s the only tip that matters and you need to remember it for the rest of your dating life. Always let the girl know you want to talk to her before you even talk to her. Don’t make the mistake of approaching a girl out of the blue and asking her out. It almost always never works, unless you’re a smooth talker with the gift of gab.
If you’re a regular joe who wants to turn into a chick magnet, just follow these steps and you’ll win her attention before you finish your drink!
Getting her attention
You need to let the girl know you’re going to approach her. So warm her up to that idea to begin with by using these steps.
#1 Glance at her. Look at her now and then just to let her know that you’re trying to catch her attention. Be sneaky and discreet, and always look away just as soon as she catches your eye. You’ll rouse her curiosity and that’ll force her to look at you now and then to see if you’re still watching her.
#2 The eye contact. Each time she looks at you, look at her and immediately look away sheepishly. Continue to look at her now and then, and once in a while, lock your gaze at her for a small fraction of a second and look away again. By doing this, you’re already building the sexual attraction. But if she doesn’t reciprocate here, she’s probably not interested in you.
#3 Appear awkward. If you’re with your friends, look at her now and then, but appear like your distracted and not able to focus on the conversation you’re having with your friends. By doing that, you’re making her see that she’s on your mind and you’re too distracted to focus on your friends. That’s subtle flattery!
#4 Smile at her. Exchange eye contact now and then, one or two times every minute and no more than that, and when you feel pretty courageous, flash a tiny smile from the corner of your lip for a second, and let her notice your smile. Don’t give her a big grin though, a malicious big grin at this stage will scare any girl away.
These moves are all about building the connection and letting her know you’re interested in her. And at the same time, it’ll also help you understand if she too is really interested in you. If she responds to your gestures similarly, it’s a sign that she’s interested in talking to you too.
But if she starts ignoring you at any point here, she’s probably not interested in you and you need to make your luck somewhere else.
How to start talking to the girl
Now that you’ve built the attraction and the chemistry, all you need to do is walk up to her and say something. Use these tips to approach her and start the right conversation.

#1 Waiting for the moment. Sometimes, all you need to do is wait for the girl to give you a chance to talk to her. If she’s really interested in you and wants to talk to you, she’d create enough opportunities for you to walk up to her. She could do this by walking to the ladies room alone, stepping away from her friends by answering a phone call, or even by just smiling at you and leaving the place.
It’s always easier to talk to a girl when she’s by herself. There are no distractions from her friends or awkward moments because she’s already expecting you to approach her.
#2 Picking her up from afar. Gesticulate. Use the right gestures to get her attention. This is tricky, but as long as you get the message across, it’ll still work as long as you do it confidently.
Look straight at her, and smile. Jerk your neck sideways just a little bit after you lock your eyes with her, and using your eyes, point her to the bar counter or some exit. Even if she doesn’t get it, you can walk up to the place you were pointing at by yourself, and she’ll know what you mean.
Not all girls may appreciate you gesticulating at her and asking her to walk up to you, but if you’ve built the chemistry from afar, she’d be more than happy to get away from her friends and give you a chance to talk to her.
#3 The group of girls. Walk up to her with your gaze fixed on her confidently. Walk right into the herd, but look straight at her and only her. Look at anyone else, and the envious friends would pounce on you with snide remarks because you didn’t pick them to flirt with.
“Hey… I really don’t mean to interrupt you girls, but could I speak with you for a minute? I just won’t be able to forgive myself if I left this place without getting to know you…”
Use any line you want and it’ll work as long as you say it firmly, but remember to make her feel special by saying something that reveals how badly you want to get to know her. And unless her friends seem to take your side by nudging her towards you or by smiling widely, completely avoid looking at them. You’d only be asking for trouble.
#4 Buy her a drink. This is something that can work very well at a bar, as long as you’ve already built the eye staring up and roused her interest. Buy her the same drink she’s already having, and ask the waiter to offer it to her. The waiter will probably drop a corny and grand message like “the gentleman sitting over there would like to offer you this drink…”
When she accepts the drink and looks towards you smiling, that’s your cue. Don’t wait any longer or she’ll think you’re a coward. But if you buy her a drink without building the connection first, you’ll just come off as a creepy guy.
#5 A twosome. If there are just two girls, walk right up to them while staring at the girl you like. If the girl’s interested in you too, her friend will slip away quietly with an excuse. But even if the friend decides to stay, just introduce yourself and say something similar to the line used in #3. But this time, include the girl’s friend in your conversation and make her feel good about herself too. But don’t forget to keep the focus on the girl you like!
Keep these conversation moves in mind and it’ll definitely do you good. But if you want to make sure it works all the time, build the tension and the mystery first with your glances and your eye contact. You’ll always end up impressing the girl even before you approach her.

Use these tips on how to approach a girl you don’t know and with a few attempts, you’ll have no trouble walking up to any girl you like and impressing her within minutes of making eye contact with her!

For Ladies – 20 Clever Ways to Respond to an Unwanted Dick Pic

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You swipe your phone to find…the dreaded dick pic. Don’t know what to say? We’re giving your 20 clever ways to respond to an unsolicited member.
With Snapchat and Tinder gaining in popularity *thanks to desperate serial daters and genuinely-seeking singles alike* there really is no avoiding it.

Avoiding what, you ask? The dick pic. The phallic photo. The cock shot. That image of someone’s private parts hanging out from outside their boxers, or that naked below-the-belt photo in the bathroom. Whether it was a booty call sext, a drunk ex, or a well-endowed prick *pun intended* we have all received an unwanted dick pic at some point.
The thing with all these willy-nilly noodles flapping all over our smartphones is that there’s too much of the unwanted, unsolicited, and not to mention tasteless ones popping up. Women like dick, alright, but not via an in-your-face photo. As if a picture of a dick would make women automatically want to have sex with the sender.
Return to sender
If you’re one of those women who keeps getting dick pics or are scared your cock-shot-virgin eyes will set their sights upon one soon, then here are 20 clever and classy ways you can respond to an unwanted “schlong-fie.”
#1 Retaliate. Respond with a better-looking dick pic. Really, what is it about his dick that’s so amazing that he thinks you’d date him based on a two-second view? Get his ego back to earth and punch it smack in the face with an image of a bigger, better-looking dick.
#2 Banana-rama. Take the metaphorical route and send a very morbid message to him. Take a picture of a banana or a weiner, for example, being sliced to pieces, or a phallic-looking tree being cut down with a chain saw. There’s nothing like an aggressive GIF or photo to send him a clear message: “Never send me dick pics—ever again!”
#3 Ridicu-LOL. Send him a simple “LOL.” It’s cold, it’s simple, and it’s effortless. Those three letters are enough to ridicule him and leave his ego damaged. Then, stop responding to all of his messages or, heaven forbid, a slew of more phallic pics.
#4 Point-and-shoot. Send a picture of yourself laughing and pointing directly at the camera—at him. Or you can also send a GIF or a photo of a hilariously, uncontrollably laughing character.
#5 Meme it. Send him back a meme to express your disgust and distaste. The interwebs is filled with memes—you can definitely find one that exactly expresses your thoughts and feelings about getting an unwanted cock shot.
#6 Pinch-to-zoom. Let him know that him sending you a photo of his dick allowed you to test out the pinch-to-zoom feature on your phone. Send him something like, “Wow, that’s it? Thanks, I now got to try the pinch-to-zoom feature on my new phone,” or “I had to zoom in to actually see what you got there. Ha!” This will be a blow to his ego, especially if he thinks that him hanging out is all that.
#7 Bigger, better. Tell him you’ve seen bigger. Or send him another GIF or photo of you raising your pinkie, a small pickle, or a short ruler.
#8 You’ve seen better. If him sending you a dick pic on the get-go shows just how much of an ass he is, then show him you’ve seen better. Send back a pic of you holding your bae’s dick, or even that of an ex’s, to show that his doesn’t pass the grade. Be careful to hide your face, though.
#9 Hairless ferret. “Is that a hairless ferret?” or “I didn’t know you have a hairless ferret for a pet.” If he’s feeling frisky, that can definitely kill the mood.
#10 Toothless mole rat. This can definitely make him regret peacocking his cock around without even so much as asking you for permission. Laugh and ask him if he just sent you a pic of a toothless mole rat.
#11 Own it. Tell him you have your own, then send him a picture of you with a realistic but fake dick. If you don’t have props, then Photoshop is your friend. The bigger, the better. Surely he’s not going to bother you anymore, after that.
#12 Cry over it. Nothing else can mess his mind more than a picture of you crying hysterically. Were you crying because his dick was so small? Or was it because his dick was so otherworldly beautiful? Well, he’ll never know. Because you won’t talk to him again.

#13 Child pornography. Compare his penis to that of a child, and respond with, “Hey, child pornography is a felony.” If that won’t wound his insensitive ego, it will at least trigger a red flag to the NSA.
#14 Social media mayhem. Look him up on social media and tell his mom—or his girlfriend. Screenshot all of your conversations and send them over via direct message. Be careful not to make a bad situation worse by posting it publicly on their walls.
#15 Publicity. If he’s too public with his dick by sending a photo of it to someone he barely even knows, then give him what he wants, and help him save time. Publish his cock shot in a blog or via social media, but be sure to blur out his and your names and numbers for privacy purposes.
#16 Not impressed. Those two words can kill it for him. After all, he probably sends unwanted phallic photos because he thinks women are as impressed with his dick as he is. Well, responding with a curt “not impressed” will keep him from taking below-the-belt photos for a good, long while.
#17 Virtual ambiguity. Respond with something ambiguous, like, “Hehe, cute.” Then don’t respond to him anymore, or endure a few days of badgering you about what you meant before you block him. Nothing like something confusing to keep him up at night.
#18 No, thanks. Say, “No, thanks.” Or better yet, send a GIF, clip, or meme that says just that. Tell him you are just not interested, using those two simple words. Besides, even if he asked you if he can send you a snap of his genitalia, you’d still have said the same thing.
#19 Spread the dick. Ah, the internet has given birth to places and sites where unthinking people that abuse technology belong, and people who send unwanted dick pics are no exception. Maybe he’ll be famous there.
#20 Educate him. If he just sent you an unsolicited pic of his private parts, then he may be doing it to other women, too.
The unsolicited dick pic is today’s catcall, the bane of the internet and mobile app dating. Not all women like it, they don’t typically ask for it, and they won’t be turned on instantly by it. Men hooting at women with their schlong doesn’t create an instant connection or suddenly spark attraction. More funny, disgusting, and traumatic than sexually stimulating, a dick pic can just leave women shocked.

A tip for all guys out there: before you even think about pulling your pants down and showing off your manhood, be sure that you get the mood going first. In addition, remember: you must always. ask. for. permission. If she says, “no,” she really means no.

How to Compliment a Girl and Make Her Blush

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Knowing how to compliment a girl is pretty important when you’re trying to make a lasting impression. After all, a compliment shows that you’ve noticed how nice a woman she really is.
There are many ways to compliment a girl, and they’re always going to sound nice.

Wouldn’t you appreciate it if you took a lot of time to dress well and your date complimented you on how nice you look?
It feels good, doesn’t it? Your date did notice the fact that you’ve cleaned up.
And just like that, girls love to be complimented too.
In fact, women love compliments a lot more than men do.
How to compliment a girl
One of the first things you should know about complimenting a girl is to be sincere.
Don’t just say something nice because you read it in a book or your friend texted you a few complimentary ques.
Be genuine when you compliment a girl, and if she does see the sincerity in your eyes, she’ll be more flattered and will appreciate your compliment.
If you’re just playing out rehearsed compliments, she would only feel uncomfortable and annoyed when she realizes you’re just trying to compliment her to get your way into her pants.
To compliment a girl, you need to understand the different ways you can do it, while flattering her at the same time.
Compliment a girl for how beautiful she looks
This is time tested and perfect all year round. You obviously know your date looks beautiful, or you wouldn’t be with her *yes, we know men are shallow*. So when you finally do meet her at the date, compliment her on how beautiful/cute/gorgeous/pretty she looks. How can you not appreciate such a wonderful woman when she’s taken so much of an effort to look cute as a button just for you?
Stare at her often
Stare at her often when you’re on a date with her. It’s one of the best compliments a guy can ever give a girl. This does come naturally when you’re smitten by a beautiful girl who’s out on a date with you, but remember this as one of those quiet compliments.
If you can’t help staring at a girl and getting lost in her eyes or her beauty, it just shows how happy you are to be with her. And yeah, you could also tell her how happy she makes you feel. That’s another great compliment for a girl.
Compliment her with words
One of the best ways in knowing how to compliment a girl is to do it with words. Not the spoken ones, the written ones.
Love stories and poems have been written by men to profess their love for their sweetheart. It would be really flattering if you could write a poem, but your girlfriend would definitely settle for something you’re capable of doing, and that’s sending a sweet text after the date or picking a beautiful card to profess your feelings for her.
Compliment her for her skills
Is she a ravishing karaoke singer or someone who knows her fine wine? Compliment her for that!
Most men assume girls don’t like to be complimented for anything other their appearance, but that’s just not true! As a matter of fact, women are so accustomed to being complimented only for their good looks that it doesn’t soften their heart as much as a character compliment could.
So the next time you’re out with your woman and she shows off one of her great skills, whatever it may be, compliment her if it awes you.
Compliment her femininity
Compliment her feminine side like kindness, her caring nature, the way she smiles and makes time stand still, the cute thing she does with her hair, or the way she fans herself when she’s feeling hot and the blushing awkward faces she makes when you compliment her.

Knowing how to compliment a girl for her femininity is such a beautiful way to acknowledge her beauty and her sweet ways without really talking about her physical attributes.
Compliment a girl with your chivalry
Men have always been acknowledged as the protectors. When you’re out on a date, make your date feel special and well taken care of. Pull her seat back for her, assist her whenever she needs assistance and pay attention to her every whim and fancy. Being chivalrous and ensuring that the girl with you is having a perfect time is one of the best ways to silently compliment the girl you’re with.
And you can rest assured on this, if you’re chivalrous and warm during the date, she’ll feel warm and fuzzy all throughout the date too!
Things to know before you compliment a girl
#1 If you’re ever confused about complimenting a girl, some of the best aspects to compliment a girl are her eyes, hair, lips, her fragrance and her voice. It’s safe, and yet, very personal. It’s hard for any girl to forget a compliment that involves these aspects.
#2 Don’t ever compliment her girlie parts. You may be tempted to say “you look so sexy” or “I love the way you fit that tee shirt”, but it’s just too physical, especially during the first date or two. You can always use those sexy lines once you’ve grown closer and she trusts you better.

#3 The best compliments are the spontaneous ones. To understand how to compliment a girl sincerely, you always need to remember this pointer. The very instant you lay eyes on her, what do you think? As long as it’s not overly sexual, it’s definitely going to be a truthful and sincere compliment.

Understand how to compliment a girl and use these ideas the next time you’re with the woman you like. It’ll definitely make her feel special, loved and a lot happier.


"Nude selfies till I die" Kim Kardashian declares as she accepts Break the Internet Award


Kim Kardashian-West on monday accepted the Break the Internet Award at the 2016 Webby's for her "unparalleled success online, undeniable talent and natural ability to use the Internet to create buzz, engage with fans and communities, and get the world to pay attention."

In her acceptance speech, the 35 year old reality star whose nude selfie caused a stir earlier this year, assured her fans that they haven't see the last of her naked body.


"Nude selfies till I die," Kim proclaimed after accepting the award.
A post on Webby Awards official website reads:
"The Webby Awards are excited to honor Kim Kardashian West with the inaugural Webby Break The Internet Award for her unparalleled success online. It would be difficult to underestimate the importance of Kim Kardashian West’s impact on the Internet. As the leading celebrity in terms of her online presence and understanding of how to connect with a global audience via social media, apps and online video, Kim has set the standard incredibly high. She has shaped our understanding of how someone or something can draw the popular attention of Internet users everywhere. To the degree that she’s created a new type of celebrity — publicizing her life to the benefit of herself and her family — is due to the Internet.  
Kim’s preternatural sense of being in the public eye, sees her appearing at seemingly every major cultural moment, most notably, her support of Caitlyn Jenner’s sex change. Likewise, with her suite of apps including the latest, Kimoji, which skyrocketed to the top of the most-downloaded list, Kim has expanded her celebrity into new territories and, safe to say, to a high degree of success as well. For breaking the Internet and putting it back together in her likeness, it is our privilege to honor Kim Kardashian West with the first-ever Webby Break the Internet Award."

The Game drops $65k for a custom artwork of Prince

Rapper The Game is the proud owner of a $65k custom painting of music legend, Prince. TMZ reports that The Game hired an artist - Madsteez the day Prince passed away, to create a massive custom painting as his personal tribute piece.

The painting which cost him $65,000 took the artist more than 100 hours to complete and is a combination of oil, acrylic and spray paints. Another photo after the cut.


11 Moves to Seduce a Woman and Get Her in Bed with You!

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It can’t get easier than this! Just read these 11 moves and you’ll surely know how to seduce a woman and get her in bed even before she realizes it.
Are you infatuated by a sexy friend?

Or do you find a girl you see occasionally completely, irresistibly sexy?
It doesn’t matter whether you know her already or she’s a complete stranger.
If you want to seduce a woman, all you need to understand are a few things about how attraction works, and learn to use it in your favor.
Seducing a girl and the things you need to know
Firstly, if you want to seduce a girl or even make her like you, you need to be a great guy who can get the girl’s attention.
If you can’t be the kind of guy who can impress a girl easily, you may still be able to seduce the girl you like, but it’ll be a lot harder to win her flirty attention.
If you can be the kind of guy that girls want and desire, it makes seducing them as easy as a walk in the park.
But even if you aren’t that kind of a guy, try these steps.
After all, it’ll only take a couple of steps to know if you’re going to end up in bed with her. So what’s the harm in trying, right?
All women have their own preferences when it comes to dating a guy or making out with him, but if you keep it mysterious and play your cards right, you could seduce any woman you like and make her want to sleep with you within a few days!
How to seduce a woman before she even realizes it!

Women aren’t difficult to read. Most guys just go wrong while trying to seduce a girl because they try too hard and blow their chances, say all the wrong things at the wrong time, or they make their intentions clear too early into the flirting stage.
If you want to know how to seduce a woman, the first thing you need to focus on is building the sexual chemistry. Don’t make it obvious that you’re trying to get her in bed. Make her wonder what’s on your mind.
And while she’s still wondering about your intentions, you can sneak past her defenses and make her want you and desire you sexually.
11 smooth moves to seduce a woman and get her in bed
Just follow these 11 really simple moves, and you’ll surely be in a great position to seduce her and get her in bed.
Use these moves one step at a time, and as long as you play your cards right, she’d be in bed with you even if there are several other guys trying to get her attention at the same time!
#1 Get close to her. If you want to seduce a girl, the first thing you need to do is get to know her better. Don’t come on too strong or she’d feel threatened or find you too easy to get, and may get bored of you.
Talk to her and get to know her better. Text her now and then, and be warm and friendly. Don’t hit on her just yet, but don’t behave like a doormat either!
#2 Be likeable. This is a pretty important stage. And this is where you can actually tell if she’s warming up to you or shrinking away from you. As you talk to her now and then, try to get to know more about her and the things she likes.
Text her or talk to her frequently, and try to bond over something both of you find interesting. If the things you say seem to be working its magic, she’d start to enjoy your chats and your texts and keep in touch with you.
But if you come across as a bore, she may start to distance herself from you. She may avoid responding to your texts, or she may take hours to respond to you. And eventually, she may just get bored and avoid you completely. If you ever notice that she takes a while to get back to you, you really need to talk about something else to keep things interesting.
#3 Get active at night. The best way to get naughty and intimate with a girl is by texting her late at night, or by calling her up when she’s in bed. Start by texting late in the evening to begin with, and within a day or two, she may be comfortable enough to text you or speak with you late into the night even if she’s uncomfortable with the idea at first.
Keep the first couple of texting conversations clean, and flirt casually without making it obvious that you’re trying to get her to fall for you. Right now, all you need to do is get closer to her and make her flirt back with you. Don’t try to get into her pants already, or there’s a chance you may blow the whole thing off!
#4 Live two lives. This is where you need to confuse her. Each time you speak with her at night or text her, be flirty and naughty. But when you meet her during the day, don’t talk about the naughty texts at all, unless she talks about it *which means she really likes the flirty texts!*.
Completely avoid talking about the texts when there are other friends around. But flirt with her when it’s just the both of you. By doing this, you’d make her convince herself that there’s already a secret passionate something brewing between the both of you, because no one else knows what’s going on but the both of you. Who doesn’t love a bit of fun, flirty secret drama in their life?
#5 Don’t let her know you like her. Many guys make this mistake here. They tell the girl they like her, or that they have feelings for her. Of course, you like her. She knows that already, doesn’t she? You text her all the time, both of you flirt all the time, and she can definitely feel the chemistry.
But even though she has a hint that you like her, she needs to hear it from you to confirm her doubts. Play it cool and don’t confess your feelings for her anytime now. Her excitement and curiosity would make her addicted to you. Revealing your affection for her will kill the suspense, which won’t help you in any way.
#6 Get into her comfort zone. When you get some alone time with her, sit closer to her and pretend like you didn’t notice how close you’re sitting. You’ve been flirting with her, now you need to get into her personal space to make her feel the sexual chemistry.
Touch her arms or her fingers while saying something, place your hands around her waist while sidestepping across her or walking past her, touch her while complimenting her, or hug her for just a second longer while saying goodbye.

#7 Build the sexual tension. By now, she’d feel the sexual tingle each time you touch her accidentally or otherwise. This is where you need to make her crave your touch. Let your hand linger on her back or on her arms as you touch her. Go really close and whisper something in her ear. Speak softly and play with her fingers when no one’s around. Build the sexual attraction right, and she’d turn into putty in your hands!
#8 Play games. If you’ve been flirting with her and feeling her up now and then while sitting next to each other, you’ve seduced her already and you’re in a great place to even take her to bed.
But if you want to play it safe and take it slow, continue to text her late at night. Play a few naughty texting games this time around, and initiate them casually. Before you know it, you’d be seducing her while having fun and playing games with her at the same time.
#9 The dirty conversation. You’ve been texting her, flirting with her and seducing her every single night. And if she’s been playing along all this while, this is where you talk dirty and make the big move. Initiate a dirty conversation over the phone. Start simple, and ask her a question that seems innocent, but would definitely lead to something dirty. And before you know it, both of you would be having phone sex with each other!
#10 Ask her out. Once you’ve had phone sex with her, you’ve seduced her already. Now all you need to do is make out with each other in person. Ask her out, or tell her you really want to meet her sometime. Make plans to meet up in your place or hers, and avoid going out on a date unless you’re trying to woo her or make her fall in love with you. This is where you need to choose whether you’re looking for a friends-with-benefits relationship or a romance.
#11 Make out with her! And when you finally do meet her *and she knows why you want to meet her*, don’t jump on her right away just because both of you have had phone sex already.
You may just end up killing the mood, or she may tell you that she’s not feeling the connection, which would take you nowhere. Play it slow, warm up to the act and make sure she’s in the mood before you try to kiss her for the first time.

If you use these 11 steps on how to seduce a woman and get her in bed, you’ll definitely be able to work your magic and seduce her. But remember, this works only if you get her interested in you first. So take it slow, watch her response, and make your move.

5 Signs Your Relationship Is Bound To Fail – A Must See For All Guys

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The phrase “dysfunctional relationship” gets thrown around as much as cliches like “love conquers all” or “never go to bed angry.” But unlike most relationship cliches, there is a lot of truth in labeling an unhealthy partnership.
Here are five signs your relationship is bound to fail

1. Harsh Startups
From the moment you begin a conversation with your partner, you’re immediately negative. You criticize, use sarcasm, and maybe even throw some biting words into the mix. This is referred to as a “harsh startup.” If any interaction begins like this, it will inevitably end the same way. Consequently, this leaves you and your partner feeling even worse than you did at the inception of the discussion, and most likely without any kind of resolution.
To combat this tendency, talk to your partner about making a serious effort to toss some positivity into your daily ritual. Instead of beginning an interaction with a nasty edge, try to open with a compliment or something you appreciate about your partner. While this ugly habit may be difficult to break, if you both become more self-aware of your actions, positive change is possible.
2. Flooding
The term “flooding” means that your partner’s negative actions, whether it’s criticism or defensiveness, is so overwhelming that you become paralyzed. You shut down emotionally and completely detach from the relationship because you simply cannot handle the toxicity. These feelings usually lead to even more contempt over time, and a quick deterioration of a relationship.
3. Body Language
When you interact with your partner, are you closed off? Arms crossed? Face scowling? Maybe even some yelling? These are common reactions when you’re feeling flooded, along with increased heart rate, a secretion of adrenaline and an increase in blood pressure.
Whatever the cause of these physical reactions, one thing is certain, it renders you unable to have a productive conversation with your significant other. If you notice yourself physically reacting in this way, try to take a few deep breaths, or ask your partner to give you a moment to calm down before you proceed. Of course, these steps are much easier said than done, but doing so will help lead to a more conducive discussion and hopefully result in a resolution.
4. Positive/Negative Balance
A combination of negative and positive is like the yin and yang of any healthy relationship. Negativity can play an important role in a relationship, such as calling out and eradicating interaction patterns that don’t work. But the key is balance. If constant negativity is keeping you and your partner from recovering from past fights, this is a recipe for disaster.
5. You can’t forgive and forget
If you find yourself still resenting your significant other for something that happened five years ago, then chances are you two won’t be together for another five. If you’re unable to let go of past problems then you could get stuck in bad memories.

10 Ways to Protect Your Relationship While on Social Media

How comfortable are you with your relationship on social media? Every couple is different and two people in a relationship are not completely the same. Even if your past relationship was all about sharing it on social media, that does not mean your current one is. While it all depends on how you use social media, it can either help you or bring you back together with an old love, but it also has the potential to completely ruin a good thing.

Social media is a blessing for many of us in many ways, but in love, how we use it and what we decide to reveal on any of the top 5 sites will determine if we sink or swim. While it may be slightly different, this can apply to people whether you are in a casual or serious relationship. I can’t help but say awww when I see two couples together on vacation on an exotic island or posting pictures of birthday celebrations with family and friends. When I start feeling awkward is when couples post drama and secrets that my eyes and ears are just not meant to see.
As much as I love Jeremy Piven’s role as the arrogant, fast talking movie agent on the hit showEntourage, the recent buzz about his social media drama makes me wonder. He allegedly has been sending creepy texts to his ex-girlfriend Kate Nardi. Things got even more awkward when Nardi’s new boyfriend Justin Rossly (a wealthy entrepreneur), exposed the drama by dishing out details and posting Jeremy’s phone number for his followers to call and ask him to stop contacting her. Not a very good situation to be in now, is it?
Get your pen and paper ready! Here are the top 10 ways to keep your relationship while on social media.

10. Avoid Socializing With Your Exes

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Let’s face it. With the way that social media is designed these days, anyone and everyone can find you if they really want to, and our exes just so happen to fall into that category.
There are times when an innocent post and comment to an ex can seem friendly, but if there are pent up emotions still lingering then watch out because it can cause a whole lot of trouble. First thing’s first, socializing with your ex online might make your current partner uncomfortable. Plus, if your ex still has feelings for you, don’t be surprised if they upload an old video or picture of the two of you, tag it and post it for everyone to see.
You have to set boundaries and make sure that using social media doesn’t turn into a way for your ex to make your partner feel jealous in an attempt to get you back. It is important to be completely open with your partner, and never accept flirtatious direct messages or play into attention grabbing posts from an ex. Even if your partner pretends they don’t mind, it can lead to resentment and that can lead to big problems in the future.

9. Don’t Post Everything

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Many of us fall into the trap of getting photo happy and posting every moment of our relationships online. While this may work for celebrities and people that live in the public eye, this can hurt your relationship. If done in a toxic way, it can also make you look like you are just seeking attention or bragging, even when your relationship may not be all that great.
If you and your partner have broken up, please do not post a classic love letter about wanting to get them back. With social media comes haters and that’s the last thing you need when you are in a vulnerable state. Trust me, it is better to express these types of things offline.
That being said, it can be nice to make it seem like you have a life outside of social media. Occasionally post pictures of your relationship with a mix of posts of family and friends, and keep other elements of your life a mystery. Don’t make yourself appear that your life revolves around one person and most importantly, if your real friends really want to know how you are doing, they shouldn’t have to see it online first.

8. Jealousy Never Works

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We all experience ups and downs no matter how happy we are in a relationship. How you decide to keep it spicy with your partner is completely up to you, but trying to make him or her jealous using social media is completely unacceptable.
I’ve seen people post pictures in the club having a fun time with friends and selfies with their exes just to get even or get more attention from their partner. While this might seem like a good idea at the time, this never ends up working out for the best. If you are feeling neglected in your relationship, the best solution is to talk about it with your partner. Trying to get the other person jealous can turn into trust issues and can put a damper on your relationship.
Relationships should not be based on trying to stir up emotions through negative actions. It might feel good in the moment but it’s not worth it in the end.

7. Eye Candy Photos

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This topic is relative because some people love public displays of affection and thrive off of the fact that their partner is considered “hot” to many people, while others may hate it. When posting sexy photographs and videos becomes ridiculous, is when you are not considering the feelings of your partner, and it starts to appear through social media that you are not even in a relationship. Not to mention if the other person you are dating sees you as a potential boyfriend or girlfriend and you are posting bikini selfies, twerking in the club or constantly flexing in the mirror with your shirt off while at the gym, your chances of being taking seriously are slim to none.
Have some discretion and before you post. Think to yourself, if my partner posted this, how would I feel?

6. Should I or Shouldn’t I?

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It’s fun when you post questions on Twitter or Facebook to get your friends’ opinions on an outfit, what restaurant to go to or the best island to visit for March break. When you post questions about whether you should get back with someone or drama that is happening in your relationship, press delete and walk away from the computer.
Depending on the dynamic of your non-romantic relationships, most of your real friends should be on your speed dial or a text message away. Why post your personal business online to get an opinion when you can invite a group of your friends out to dinner and dish the news?
The last thing that you need is your girlfriend calling you about a post their friend sent to them because you needed relationship help.
5. What’s The Role Of Privacy?
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There are people out there in successful relationships that have not and will never turn to social media to show the world what they have. Some people like to keep their information completely private because they know very well what the wrong post can lead to. It may seem like some people are trying to play the field online, while hiding their man offline, but this is not always the case.
There is no rule in a book that says if you keep your relationship private online that means you are cheating or hiding a good thing. Some people just so happen to be more interesting, and enjoy posting themselves online versus just photos of their relationship.

4. Delete As Soon As Possible

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Most of us have good intentions when we are dating and just starting to get to know someone. However, many of us have experienced friends, or people we barely know, posting or tagging us in photos that just don’t paint us in the best light.
They say a picture is worth a thousand words, and we see things differently compared to others. What may be an inside joke to yourself and your friends may look awful to a new potential dating partner. If a friend posts a picture of you with a person that your partner just so happens to be in an argument with, it could also cause big drama. The last thing any relationship problem needs is outside trolls who start commenting or sharing the photo and getting you in hotter water. It is even worse when you were not even talking to the person in question, you just so happened to be standing beside each other or were just in the same location, but for different reasons.
When in doubt, delete, delete, delete. Some people like to cause drama online, and getting caught up into something you had no intention on starting can turn into more than what it really needs to be.

3. Sharing An Account

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I am starting to see this more often when a couple will share an account. Their profile picture and user name makes it very obvious that it is a “couple’s” social media account. This can be good for those that own a business together and are known for working together when promoting the business. Depending on the two people, it can also help to diffuse social drama that is bound to happen at any time.
If you decide to share an account, this indicates that the both of you are confident and trust each other in the relationship. It might even take off the pressure of having to keep up with your account if the two of you are sharing it at the same time.
For couples with children (that are comfortable with posting family info) this can also make your relationship easier, if both of you can be on top of posting enough cute photos of your children. Get creative and make it fun. Social media doesn’t necessarily have to be a challenge when the whole family is involved.

2. “The World Revolves Around Me” Problem

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There are some people that are born to naturally draw people to them. Some men and women are born with good looks and whether they are doing something exotic or just holding hands with their partner while out on the town, it will still draw attention even when they are not looking for it.
If you are one of those people that are a lady or hunk magnet, the comments and direct messages will reflect the same reality. Whatever you do, don’t bask in the attention to the point that your partner starts feeling neglected. Remember, social media can be a fantasy world for many. A wink, like or nice comment doesn’t mean that you can get away with flirting or cheating even if Popular is your middle name.
When you are in a serious relationship, the world no longer revolves around you. Remember that one has become two.

1. Keep it Classy

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There is an old saying that goes “always walk the high road.” This applies to work, school, relationships and life in general. We all know that what you post online can be deleted, but not completely. People can save images and photos, sometimes quicker than you can delete them. Even when you think your Facebook is secure like Fort Knox, the right amount of online activity and those photos can be linked to your name when you search yourself on Google. Say goodbye to job prospects!

Now that social media is an essential part of our lives, I have heard many men and woman mention they will Google a person they are just starting to get to know. With that being said, think before you post and if you have a gut feeling it is not a good idea, listen to your intuition.

13 Signs She Wants You In Her Bed

Girls want it just as much as guys do. But in order to get her in bed we must be diligent, listen intently, and pay close attention. Every moment is filled with verbal and nonverbal communication that you must decipher. Asking “Want to f—?” is not an option.

Let’s start by saying you’re at a bar, or some type of house party, and a girl approaches you. She’s hot, you’ve seen her around and know you’re both single. You start to talk with her and she’s easy to be with. Maybe you see her the next day and go see a movie or have dinner. The evening goes well, leads to another date, and pretty soon you begin to get that itch. You start thinking about her all day, even when she’s not around. You are pretty sure she likes you too, but are you two ready to take it all the way?

Or here’s another scenario: You are both at a party, very drunk and both hornier than a marching band. You’ve just met her but there is definitely some chemistry. She’s flirting and actually enjoyed your awful pick up lines, but you can’t take her home just yet. You have to be sure she’s really feeling it, before you get too forward too fast and end up getting rejected.
There are many different scenarios, and every girl has a different attitude and body language. Depending on how shy or how forward she is, her subtle clues may be harder to spot. But once you get to know her, and get past that initial nervousness, you should be able to notice these 13 signs that she wants you in her bed. Read on, my friend, and best of luck.

13. She Touches You

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A handshake is one thing, or a hearty pat on the back. Those are mundane points on your body that get touched constantly. Your uncle, a coach or best buddy touches you there all the time, and a girl knows it. She wants to send you a signal and touch a spot that is more sensitive, and not used to the attention. If she’s forward she might grab your butt on the dance floor. Or a crotch grab means it’s on! A shy girl however may slip her fingers under your sleeve and gently squeeze you bicep, or swipe the hair out of your eyes, or touch your face or neck.

12. She Licks Her Lips

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If things are getting hot and heavy you both may get a little fidgety. Just like having a high hand in a poker game, if she likes what she sees, she’ll start to show. Watch for a subtle but repeated toss of her hair. Maybe she keeps tugging on her necklace, or even sucking on its pendant. Her mouth is an erogenous zone, and it will feel good to be stroked in times like these. Licking of the lips draws attention to her mouth and all the fun you could have with it. And her tongue is anxious to lick something besides herself.

11. She Mentions The Act

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So the conversation is rolling and suddenly you notice a pattern. Let’s say you’re discussing movies and she keeps bringing up the naughty scenes. She mentions certain actors she would love to sleep with and maybe one of them looks like you. Or you’re talking about music and she recites all the dirty lyrics to that Maroon 5 song that’s playing. Maybe she even serenades you, with the lyrics sung into your ear. She might even bring up the topic out of nowhere. Maybe you’ve had one date too many and she wants action. If she seems to have a one-track mind, then it’s time to capitalize.

10. She Wears Attractive Clothes

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On that first date she wore a nice laid-back wool sweater. Then came a low V-neck blouse and jeans. Soon she’s wearing a skin-tight dress with high heels and tons of cleavage. When she walks away you are mesmerized by her awesome butt. Even the waiter has a hard time looking in her eyes when he takes her dinner order. Every dude in the restaurant is watching her. And the women are watching too, because they know what she’s up to. She took the Selena Gomez song to heart: She wants to look good for you, show how glad she is to be yours, and leave her mess a dress on the floor.

9. She Invites You Over

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It’s getting late and it’s time for bed. You’ve both had a few drinks and don’t want it to end quite yet. Let’s say you drop her off and walk her up to the door. Even though it’s 1am she invites you inside for one more drink. Well, better hope you brought protection, because getting into the apartment is close to getting into the pants. This is the most obvious cue of them all. Just try not to get too excited. Even though she has stated the obvious, she will still want to surprise and impress you with her best matching lingerie, which she is surely wearing, for a little while longer.

8. She Gives You An Electrifying Kiss

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This truth has been around since the first date ever. That final moment, the kiss at the end of the night will teach you more in one second than you’ve learned the rest of the night. You can kiss her and it’s like kissing a bronze statue. Or you can kiss her and be unsure, like there’s more work to be done. Or you can kiss her and the fireworks explode. She’s pulling you in, tongue flailing, wanting more and more and you’re doing the same. Your hands are both probing and maybe even a button or two comes undone. If that’s the case, it’s time to get busy.

7. She Gets You Alone

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This is a subtle cue that girls do when you’re at a party. Say you are all talking amongst a group of friends and everybody is laughing at all of your jokes. Next thing you know, the girl drags you away from the crowd to have a private conversation one-on-one. This also might happen at a sporting event, when she takes you to the concourse where you can’t be distracted by the game. She wants you to play a different kind of game, one with her, where she is the hunter and you are the prey. She wants privacy so she can pounce. Better get going.

6. She Texts You

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You have been on a couple dates with the girl and you two text now and then, but nothing too crazy. Then one night she starts blowing up your phone and the messages keep getting hotter and hotter. The once totally shy girl has found freedom behind her phone, and is texting about all the things she wants you to do to her body. Do not ignore these texts and assume they’re some kind of joke. She is not playing. She might be drunk and the inhibitions have dissolved. Or perhaps her roommate stole her phone and is texting the desires for her. Don’t hesitate. There’s nothing to lose. Get in the car and find her as soon as possible.

5. She Sits Close


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Here is another situation where you aren’t alone but in a group setting, and she’s trying to give you a hint. Lets say it’s a house party, the conversation moves into the living room and there’s a large couch sitting there empty. Forget the gentleman stuff, you need to sit down first, and then she can decide how close she wants to sit with you. If she sits at the other end of the sofa then give up, it’s over. If she sits close, you’re doing well. If she sits so close that she is in physical contact with you, that’s even better. If she sits on top of you and does a lap dance, great, but she might be a little too crazy so be careful.

4. She Flatters You

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Sometimes the old saying is true: You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. This girl is taking grandma’s advice and literally trying to flatter the pants off of you. It may start casually, like, “Nice shirt.” Then soon you are in a group setting and she’s bragging for you. Telling everyone about the great idea you had at work or how you set the curve on the final exam. She is using her manners to a point that it almost seems corny, but don’t fret. That’s just her way to get you to notice her and to let you know that you can do no wrong in her eyes.

3. She Makes Innuendo

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This one is more rare, but it does happen. It’s a funny way to arouse interest when the girl might be too shy to speak bluntly. Let’s say it’s hot outside and you two go out for ice cream. She orders soft serve in a cone and proceeds to lick the treat slowly and adds a sensual sigh here and there. You’ve got something going on now. First of all, if that girl wasn’t into you she would have ordered that ice cream in a cup. Maybe you should ask her to taste yours. Or taste hers so she can see a nice licking visual to fantasize about. Then leave the parlor immediately because it’s go time.

2. She Reveals Skin

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Here is another game that girls like to play. She will act insecure although she is the farthest thing from it. She knows she’s looking good and she wants to hear you say it. It’s called fishing for compliments. This girl is smoking hot with a nice round butt, a perfect chest and a stomach as flat as an ironing board. Then you’re sitting on the couch, she lifts up her shirt and says, “Look. My tummy looks flabby, doesn’t it?” Not at all. In fact, maybe you should touch her to feel its firmness. Maybe you should show her yours. And if that game continues, things will get intimate in a hurry.

1. She Seems Turned On

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You know when a girl is turned on. You can sense it in her breath. Her breathing gets harder and she sighs with a smile. Maybe she blushes, or slightly sweats. She’s biting her lips. Saying, “Oh, God”, in a good way, about nearly everything. Maybe you noticed that her nipples firmed up a few times over the course of dinner. She seems to be falling apart at the seams. Something has come over her and it’s time to ask the waiter for a check and get that girl in her bed. This is a state known clinically as super-duper-ready-to-go. A complete sensuality overload. She needs to get off before it’s too late.

Ladies, This is The Major Reason Why He Will Dump You After Suffering With Him

So…. your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life but he is friends with everybody in your family. His mum even calls you “IYAWO MI” and your head is spinning. . he tells you he wants to have his second degree, a proper house and a bigger car first before thinking marriage…. you sit there smiling with just a bachelors degree and a good girl sign board thinking you’ll be the wife?
With the little he has, you ask for Brazilian hair and louboutin. Some will not even ask for anything so that they will help him save and so they dont come across as high maintenance chicks… he goes to work and goes straight to class after work. He jumps from one seminar to another..he leaves you in pajamas and finds you in the same pajamas.. while he studies you watch Telamundo, Empire and Nigerian movies.
He comes back home to find chips and chicken in the microwave everyday. he eats well because you are a good cook. Clap for yourself. He retire to bed and you follow him and fuck his brains out. the house is clean and his clothes ironed… the only serious conversation y’all have is about the type of groceries you guys need and when he is coming to see your father. The only real skill you have is cooking,bouncing up and down his dick, washing his cloths, taking selfies and updating your instagram.

The only advice you give him is “babe you need to buy new socks, the ones you bought last time are torn” nothing intelligent comes out of your mouth..no plans of making your own life better…yes you are pretty…no doubt about that!….so is every second girl passing by.
Do you realize something… you not doing anything a maid and a call girl cant do…. hes gonna finish getting his MSC and PHD and the first thing hes gonna do is REPLACE HIS WORN-OUT MAID cause he can now afford to pay a fresh one with proper packaging to match his new stats.

That’s when we gonn hear your famous last words “i was with him thru thick and thin when he had nothing, now that he is successful he thinks i am nothing”
Yes your right..you have always been NOTHING but a maid to him. . .
Empower yourself to be the woman your man wants now and would want to be with in the nearest future.. UPGRADE is the key.. Further your education, Learn a skill, Open a business…Every man wants a woman who would be able to carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or his health!!
Stop giving a boyfriend or fiance the benefits of a husband or you will end up empty and heart broken !!!
May God guide your path as you make the necessary changes!!!

Check out 9 people you should never invite to your wedding

Any bride will tell you weddings are very stressful and like birthdays, they never go 100 percent as planned. From when you are engaged to when you say ‘I DO’, you will be stressed planning the perfect day. Here are nine people to keep off your invitation list if you don’t want that special day to be a certified disaster.
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1. Your ex-boyfriend

An ‘ex-boyfriend’ should stay as his title describes: in the past. Especially one that is angry or bitter at your break-up. He may have been your best friend then and now you love him like a brother but you have a new best friend now: your groom. Your wedding day officially marks the beginning of a life with your husband and things from the past should not leech unto your future. A bitter ex-boyfriend will not have any positive thing to give you that day so forget him. Plus, never underestimate how emotional you will be that day or how much the wedding jitters will get you; you might just see his face that day and think it’s a brilliant idea to ditch your groom and hop off and give him a second chance. He can still send you an amazing wedding present and maybe show face at your reception but not during the ceremony, unless you want him to jump right up and act out a movie scene once the Pastor asks of anyone has an objection.

2. That guy you were once “freaky” with

The guy you did the most nasty things with or the guy who you first explored everything with, keep him away! It was fun while it lasted and now you have moved your freakiness to another man. His presence there is just an unneeded reminder of the past and if he looks better in person and is doing better financially, you might start to reminisce and wonder what other areas he is doing better in, if you get my drift.

3. Your friend who hates your significant other

She has spent time with your husband and he is extra nice to her, but she won’t budge. Anytime you say one bad thing he does, she jumps straight into ‘I told you so,’ and anytime you say the great things he does, she rolls her eyes and tells you to be suspicious of his behaviour. Heck, even during your bridal shower, she gave you a speech on how it’s never too late to back out and how fast she can get you a divorce lawyer when you come to your senses. Any negative person might bring you down with their infectious bitterness. Also, she might make stab a knife into your husband’s mood with her eye rolls and unenthusiastic sarcastic cheering when you guys kiss. Let her stay at home and follow the wedding via twitter or something.

4. Your close guy/girl friend who your groom/bride doesn’t like

Like it or not, men usually know what’s up. Unless your husband is pathologically jealous, if he points out that he doesn’t feel comfortable with your best guy friend at the wedding, you should probably believe him. Your friend may be like a brother to you and you never want to be romantically involved but you can never know what the friend is thinking. If your friend was there before your husband, he probably knows you more and may think he is a better fit and as wedding day madness sets in, you might think so too and look your husband dead in the eye and say, ‘I take thee *your best guy friend*’ and it all goes downhill from there. By all means, invite him to the reception to boogie down with you but for the sake of peace between you and your husband, he can skip the ceremony.

5. Your relation who refuses to give their blessing

Unless this person is your mother or father, do not invite them to any part of the wedding. If it’s your parents, invite them if you must but be sure you don’t let them kill your vibe. Any relation who is negative and basically just waiting for the marriage to fail, is poison at your ceremony. They will be shooting you daggers and might cause a scene over any little thing. When they say clap, they may not clap. When they say stand up, they may sit in defiance. When someone is giving a toast to the couple and everyone’s hands are stretched forth with a wine glass, they may fold their arms stubbornly or worse sip on the wine before the toast. Some may even go as far as push down your wedding cake by ‘accident’. Just no! Don’t invite them. Let them stay at home and keep waiting for your marriage to fail.

6. Any girl (single or married) who has slept with your man

Your acrobatics in bed may have gotten your man hooked and that’s why you have won ring but anyone who has slept with him can stay at home an reminisce on the good old days with him. Their presence there is a reminder of all he has done in his past, more accurately, who he has done in his past. And seeing them may even spark residual feelings in him and you know men get more wedding jitters so don’t give your man encouragement to act on them. However, if he had a child before you, it’s courtesy to invite her and the baby they have. It’s courtesy but it’s not a law.

7. That condescending relation aka the relation who always comments on your weight

The perfect payback right? But seriously, those relations who barely have what to say to you and end up pointing out your flaws should just avoid the wedding. That day might not go out as planned and you might be stressed, angry, and all other emotions and all they will do is point out all the things that are wrong with your dress, make-up and so on. Feel free to keep them off the list.

8. People you haven’t spoken to in years

Unless you like your award reunion with these people to be on your wedding day or you made a pact to not speak in years but still show up at wedding, do not invite them. Speaking on phone, WhatsApp and all other social media is allowed if both of you have been long distance. But if neither of you have not been bothered to call, WhatsApp or even email, then it’s not worth it. She or he can view your wedding pictures on Instagram; they don’t need to be there that day.

9. The “unprofessional” alcoholics

You have that one person or people you know who just can’t take their liquor. Every night you go out with them, they drink and start misbehaving and ruin your whole night because you end up babysitting them and leaving early. They will do this on a larger scale on your wedding day. It’s your special day and you should not have to babysit or cringe as you watch them drink and wait for their madness to start. To avoid any mishaps and embarrassing scenarios they could cause, let them stay at home. If you need them there on that day, make sure the waiters give them non-alcoholic drinks only.

7 ways to recognize broke girls who try so hard to form

It is definitely not new to see girls who go out of their ways to give people the impression they are comfortable when in reality, they are broke.
As a matter of fact, we tend to run into girls like that often; they live fake lives and give everyone around them the impression they are big and are born with silver spoon. Not only is this height of deception they use vague, it is also one of the traits people who are shallow minded possess.
Why would you go out of your way trying to be someone you really are not? Why would you borrow money or steal just because you want to put up a rich girl façade? Who does forming help? The only thing is you end up being more broke while you chase away people who might be interested in helping you because you must have given them the impression you are rich and do not need help.
Without trying to defame anyone, we would be looking at some of the ways you can pick out broke girls who do everything they could not to look the part. This would perhaps help men to steer clear of ladies like that or even bring a feeling of self-consciousness to ladies who live like that.
Read some of the signs below:

1. They are mainly girls who take pictures in hotel baths and toilets

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You could never get it wrong if you use this point to pick out girls who are always trying to appear big. These girls upon visiting the cinemas, expensive bars and restaurants visit the rest rooms just to take pictures.

These pictures are uploaded as display pictures on BBM or profile pictures on whatsapp. The point is we know that is not your personal bathroom and toilet so top doing it.

2. They always love to be seen in posh environments

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Broke girls do all they can to fit into posh environments. They frequent exotic bars and restaurants in groups and try to prove they are classy. The point is you really do not have to be a regular customer somewhere in order to make people think you are rich when in actual sense you are struggling.
These girls use expensive makeup and do conceal all their spots and dents. They do all they could to make attract men who may actually change their standard of living.

3. Something does not fit about them

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Even with the expensive weaves they buy, the phones they use and the attractive clothes they wear, you would always be able to spot out broke girls. If you linger around them for too long, you would be able to see their flaws clearly.
Most of them are just girls who are looking for rich guys to follow around. That is the major miracle they are waiting for as they are too busy lounging and fooling around instead of being gainfully employed somewhere.

4. They falter unnecessarily

Most broke girls falter when they are being tried. They try desperately to fit into the class of the rich and then get embarrassed when they are being tested. They pretend most of the times and lie when they do not know what else to do.
The information they give is far from being correct; many of the broke girls are beautiful so some men pay little or no attention to their IQ level.

5. They are crazy about expensive gadgets

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Another way to recognize broke girls is their insatiable thirst for gadgets. They always want to buy the latest model of phones released when they do not have a sustainable means of income. Many of them go about with expensive phones when they do not have a place to rest their heads in the night. They are more interested in keeping up with the fake life they live.

6. They try to announce their presence

ways of spotting broke girls in the society
Broke girls also love to be noticed. They simply cannot bear not getting people’s attention when they enter a place. They either shake their bodies when they enter a place or parade till people notice their presence. They are girls who enter a place and end up doing notice-me-I’m-around.

7. They are annoyingly dramatic

Broke girls are honestly dramatic; they are most times petty. These girls do not want to work like every other responsible girl out there. Begging is their hobby and they would always have one pathetic story or the other to tell.

They would beg people around them for money and then end up using the money to buy some expensive powder and foundation those who are working 247 cannot afford.

Paula Patton stuns at movie premiere (photos)

The 40 year old looked amazing on the red carpet of the LA premiere of Do-Over movie yesterday.

7 Things That Can Destroy The Life Of Any Young Man

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There are many things that can destroy the life of a young man, hurt their destiny, stop their growth, slow their progress or block their advancement in life.All young men should know this things and avoid them.
1. Living Without Purpose And Vision
A friend of mine once said, “Guys of nowadays love Television buh don’t have Vision “.This is nothing buh the truth.Most guys don’t have vision, aspiration or even a plan for tomorrow.You can’t be the best in any trade if you don’t have anything you’re pursuing.
2. Alcohol And Drug
The use of alcohol and drug is another way young men ruin their lives.When a young man is exposed to drug and alcohol at a very tender age, the effects goes beyond what they ever expect in life, as they easily get inducted into the dark world of crime.
3. Wrong Association
The company a young man walks with, will ultimately determine what he will become.Choose your friends wisely.Some friends are multipliers while some are destroyers.A wise man once said “Show me your friends and I can accurately predict your future.The company you keep determines your accomplishments.
4. Crime
Wrong association and information, leads to drugs and alcohol usage.The resultant effects are crime, gang fights, cultism, armed robbery murder etc. At the end, the law catches up with those young ones and helps them waste many years in the college for stubborn and foolish prison yards.
5. Sexual Immoralities
Lust, fornication, pornography, rape, masturbation etc are all sexual immoralities and serves as a media the devil uses to destroy the life of young men.Don’t expose yourself to them, don’t company with those that are involved in it because it will end up destroying you.
6. Laziness
Hatred of work, oversleeping, indolent lifestyle is dangerous to the life of any single man.A man, I mean a real man should be bold enough to work, he must be a man of the field, planting and harvesting for his future.When a man is a lover of his bed, lazy and lukewarm, there’s no way he will not serve his mates and live in abject poverty and penury throughout is lifetime.
Last buh not the least..
7. Love Of Money
Love of money is a great destroyer of many young men nowadays.Some even results in rituals, that later end up their lives soon.Don’t think without money, you can’t reach that place you desired to be.. And always remember, Vanity Upon Vanity, All Is Vanity.

Cameroon:Justice Ayah Paul Under Investigation Over FCFA 30M Campaign Funds

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The erstwhile Member of Parliament and former National Chairman of the Peoples’ Action Party, PAP, Paul Ayah Abine, has been placed under investigation regarding the management of the political configuration from 2011 to January 22, 2016.
The decision to place him under investigation was taken in Kumba, Saturday May, 14, during a National Executive Committee Meeting, NEC of PAP.
Actions in this light followed several questions raised by delegates from Manyu regarding rumours that political parties are given financial grants by the State.
According to Emmanuel Egbe Ayuk, the current leadership of the party must clarify the militants concerning the management of financial grants from the State to PAP militants. Addressing Ayuk’s worry, the Vice National Chairman of PAP, Takor Apark, admitted that the Sate provides some grants to political parties, but that the former leader of PAP, Justice Paul Ayah Abine did not avail the party with any information regarding the grants. Takor said the worries of the militants were pertinent, given PAP’s performance at the 2011 Presidential election.
” We will see how we can investigate the matter. We have decided to form a commission that will follow up the matter from MINADT.
You go to Tombel, Lebialem, Nguti it is the same question. We do not want to work on rumours. So we will get the facts on the period during which the former leader was there and there after the militants will be informed,” Takor stated.
As debates heightened during the meeting, the Secretary General of PAP, Alphonse Ekambi Mukwelle declared that, Ayah’s phone lines went dead after FCFA 30million was reportedly given to him.
The acting Chairman, Albert Mukwelle Ngoh further stated that, ‘Ayah is selfish and hungry’. Quizzed if his declaration could be taken to mean that the problems plaguing PAP were triggered by money, Ngoh, said he has worked with Ayah for a while and knows him to an extent.
He admitted to reporters that he used the term selfish to describe the management of the party under Ayah in material, psychological and financial terms. Venting out their anger, other delegates at the meeting opined that they spent over FCFA 1million each from their personal pockets to run campaigns for PAP in 2011.Such were the declarations of Emmanuel Egbe and Michael Mbu.
Another official at the NEC meeting, Prince Tabe Ekangaki averred that, in 2011, Ayah came with good intentions and a few years after, PAP “discovered that, he was a wolf in sheep clothing”. The delegates at the party meeting described Ayah’s Popular Action Party that goes by the same appellation as PAP as a brief case party which exists only on Facebook.
They said Ayah is just trying to force way into the scene, but they will not allow him to cause confusion in the People’s Action Party. On whether it was Ayah’s PAP that is legal or not, the conveners of the Kumba meeting brandished and acknowledgement receipt from the administration to justify their authenticity.
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Before Saturday’s NEC meeting, several journalists got information on Wednesday that the Supreme Court Judge, Ayah was in Kumba and tried to get to him to no avail. The situation left the press corps worried as they saw in Ayah’s supposed Kumba visit an opportunity for him to clear the air on the confusion raging on in PAP.

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