Fon of Njap Wins Suit Against Donga Mantung SDO

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Cameroon Journal, Nkambe – The North West regional Administrative Court has passed  judgment on the law suit pitting the Fon of Njap as plaintiff, against the State of Cameroon represented by Ndonga Mantung Senior Divisional Officer, SDO. The decision vindicated the traditional ruler who had asked the court to annul a Prefectoral Order, signed in an attempt to settle a land dispute in his fondom.

In the ruling dated December 24, the court outlined the genesis of the dispute – that the SDO for Donga Mantung, had taken a decision giving the divisional officer for Mesaje subdivision and his security collaborators powers to administer a quarter in Njap community known as Ngong-Njap, found in Nkambe subdivision.  At the time of the SDO’s order, the Ngog-Njap community was under disputed between the Fon of Njap and that of Kamine village. The dispute had been prompted by the death of the sub-chief of Ngong, killed on March 3, 2015.

In the Fon of Njap’s petition to the administrative court, he stated among other things, that the “SDO knew very well that Ngong is found in Njap under Nkambe Central.” He told the court president, Rose Mbah Acha Fomundam, that the SDO’s decision was a subtle method to reduce the scope of his village and allocate part of it to another village for personal reasons.

Presented with the claims of Njap traditional ruler, the SDO told the court that he acted within his rights to protect and maintain public order. He also claimed among other things, that the Fon of Njap had not established that he was going to suffer any irreparable loss as a result of the prefectoral order.

The verdict of the court simply annulled the prefectoral decision and gave the traditional ruler the right to carry out traditional rites on the disputed locality in honour of the dead sub chief.

 The court also pointed out among other reasons for the verdict, that the prefectoral order, ‘solving’ a land dispute, was “not arrived at by a legally constituted commission as envisaged by Decree No 78/322 of 03/08/1978 on the creation of commissions for the settlement of boundary disputes between administrative units and disputes between traditional communities.”

Below is the complete judgement:

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Ruling of the No NWAC/002/SE/2015 BETWEEN: FON OF NJAP VS STATE OF CAMEROON SDO NDONGA MANTUNG)

 In conformity with the provisions of section 31 OF Law no 2006/022 of 29^th December 2006 to lay down the organization and functioning of the administrative courts, I have the honour to notify you of the certified copy of ORDER No 009/SE/PC/2015 on STAY OF EXECUTON delivered on the 28 of July 2015 by the President of the North West Administrative Court in the above cited suit.

Article 1: The Application for a stay of execution of Prefectural order No 094/PO/E27/C.111/SASC to temporarily regulate the performance of traditional rites in MOH/TCHINA (Ngong/Tchina) quarter disputed by Njap Village in Nkambe Subdivision and Kamine village in Misaje Sub-division, is hereby granted

Article 2: The effects of the said prefectoral order No 094/PO/E27/C.111/SASC (supra) are suspended.

Article 3: Cost is reserved.

Article 4: The registrar-in-chief of this court shall notify the parties and he Legal Department.

-in the year twenty fifteen

-And on the 28^th day of July

We, Mbah Acha nee Rose Ngwari Fomundam, President of the Administrative Court, North West region, Bamenda;

-Mindful of Law No 2006/022 of the 29/12/2006 to lay down the organization and functioning of administrative courts;

-Mindful of Decree No 2012/119 of 15/03/2012 creating Administrative Courts in the Regions;

-Mindful of Decree No 2012/194 of 18^th April 2012 bearing on the appointment of judges at the Administrative Courts

-Considering the stamped application; dated 10/06/2015 filed in the registry if this court on the 11/06/2015 with registration No 186;

Considering the submissions of the Learned Procurer General dated 15/07/2015 and filed in the registry of this court on 23/07/2015 with registration number 263-2015, wherein, he urged the court to reject the prayer sought in the application;

-considering that by the above mentioned stamped application, Barrister Suh Fuh Benjamin of Amity Chambers Bamenda, acting on behalf of his client/ the applicant, the Fon of Njap seized the President of this court with an urgent administrative interlocutor application, wherein, he prays the President for an order staying the execution of Prefectoral order No 094/PO/E7/C.111/SASC of the 8^th of April 2015, issued by the Senior Divisional Officer of Donga Mantung Division pursuant to Article 30 of Law No 2006/022 of 29^th December 2006;

Whereas the facts of the application are stated in the application and are as follows:

“1) the petitioner is the Fon of Njap, thus the traditional ruler of his people and Ngong is one of the quarters in his fondom.

2) On the 31/03/2015, the sub-chief of Ngong was murdered in his house and criminal investigations are on.

3) He was buried on the 04/04/2015 at Ngong in Njap accordingly to the customs and tradition of the Njap people.

4) The respondent summoned a meeting between the Fon of Kamine Village and that of Njap on the 04/04/2015

5) The decisions that were arrived at were not those that the prefectoral order No 094/PO/E.27/C.111/SASC of 08/04/2015 bore.

6) On the 17/04/2015, the petitioner wrote to the respondent in protest of the articles in the prefectoral order, but unfortunately did not obtain proof of service.

7) The petitioner later on briefed counsel who on the 12/5/215 wrote to the respondent, calling on him to annul the Prefectoral order No 094/PO/E.27/C.111/SASC of 08/04/2015 and the said correspondence was served by Maitre Mbock Didier, Lord Sheriff Bailiff in the 13/05/2015. The said correspondence and the proof of service are herewith attached and marked with ‘A’ and ‘B’ respectively.

8) The prefectural order No 094/PO/E.27/C.111/SASC of 08/04/2015 is certified and attached and marked ‘C’.

9) That prefectoral order gave the divisional officer for Mesaje and his security collaborators in its Article 4, the powers to administer the Quarter Ngong on account of Promiximity, when he knew fully well that Ngong is found in Njap under Nkambe Central.

10) Nkambe Central Sub-Division has more security officials than Mesaje and it is in an outright abuse of constituted authority for a sub divisional officer of another Sub-Division to be asked to administer part of another Sub-Division on grounds of proximity.

11) That the petitioner considers the act of the respondent as a tacit method to reduce the scope of his village on terms of land and population and allocate same to another village for personal reasons.

12) That the respondent s a supervisory authority over the petitioner but cannot decide issues that touch on the native rights and customs of the people.

13) That in the Prefectoral order the names of the deceased Sub Chief Ndingansi were wrongly spelt as Ndingante and in annexure “A” the right spelling was mentioned.

From the afore going, the petitioner prays he honourable court for the following:

• For a stay of execution of Prefectoral Order No 094/PO/E.27/C.111/SASC of 08/04/2015, pending the hearing and determination of an eventual substantive suit.
• Declare that the territorial boundaries of Nkambe Central Sub Division and Mesaje be respected.
• Declare that the traditional rites of late sub chief Ndingansi(not Ndigante) be performed by the petitioner”

-Considering that by correspondence No NWAC/REG/SE/003/2015 OF 22/06/2015, the respondent, the Senior Divisional Officer for Donga Mantung Division was served by the Registrar-in-chief of this court, with a copy of the application;

-Considering that in his filed defense, the respondent urged the court to reject the prayer sought in the application on the following grounds:

1. a) That article 2 of Law No 2003/016 of 22^nd December 2003 regulating disputes concerning the boundaries of administrative units and boundaries of traditional fondoms ousts the jurisdiction f the courts for the annulment of an administrative act taken to delimit the territorial competence of administrative units and traditional rulers.
2. b) That the applicant has failed to show that the execution of the said Prefectoral order will cause him irreparable damage.
3. c) That the Prefectoral order challenged concerns public order; security and public peace since it is a primordial and permanent duty of an administrative authority to take all necessary measures to prevent all danger to public peace, security of goods and persons and reestablish public order if threatened.

-Considering that this application is filed pursuant to the provisions of article 30 of Law No 2006/022 of the 29/12/2006 on the organization and functioning of Administrative Courts which states:

1) The filing of a pre-litigation complaint against an administrative decision does not suspend its execution.

2) However, when execution is susceptible to cause irritable injury and that the contested decision does not concern public order, security or tranquility, the President of the administrative court to which an application has been filed, after communicating to the respondent and after submissions of the Legal Department, order the stay of execution.

ON ADMISSIBILITY:

-Considering that Article 30 cited herein above makes it a condition precedent for the admissibility of an urgent application filed under the said Article, that the applicant must show Proof of having lodged a pre-litigation complaint;

-Considering that the applicant in the instant case annexed exhibit “A”, to the application, dated 12/05/2015, captioned Pre-litigation letter Re: Appeal for the annulment of Prefectoral order and addressed to the Senior Divisional Officer Donga-Mantung Division Nkambe;

Considering the unchallenged allegation that the challenged Prefectoral order was served on the petitioner on the 09/04/2015;

Hold that the pre-litigation complaint, exhibit “A”, was filed within time and addressed to the appropriate authority as per the provisions of article 17 of Law No 2006/022 of the 29/12/2006 and accordingly,

-Declare the application admissible

ON THE MERITS

-Considering that according to the provisions of Article 30 of Law No 2006/022 of 29/12/2006, the applicant, to succeed must prove that execution of the challenged administrative decision is liable to cause irreparable damage, and in the instant case, the applicant has shown that the execution of the challenged decision

Will cause irreparable harm, in that it will implicitly lead to insecurity as the petitioner alleges eminent discontent in the following paragraphs:

“9) That the prefectoral order gave the Divisional Officer for Mesaje and his security collaborators in its article 4, the powers to administer Ngong on account of proximity when he knew fully well that Ngong is found in Njap under  Nkambe Central.

11) That the petitioner considers the act of the respondent as a tacit method to reduce the scope of his village in terms f land and population and allocate same to another village for personal reasons”

-Considering that, even though the challenged decision concerns measures of public order, security and tranquility, executing it may lead to more disorder and insecurity between the two villages;

-Considering that the petitioner alleges in the petition that they intend to file a substantive matter challenging the prefectoral order;

-Considering that there is likelihood that the petitioner may succeed in the substantive suit, as the challenged decision was not arrived at by a legally constituted commission as envisaged by Decree No 78/322 of 03/08/1978 on the creation of commissions for the settlement of boundary disputes between administrative units and disputes between traditional communities.

Hold on the basis of the foregoing that the application will succeed. Accordingly:

ORDER AS FOLLOWS

 Article 1: The application for a stay of execution of No 094/PO/E.27/C.111/SASC to temporarily regulate the performance of traditional rites in MOH/TCHINA (Ngong/Tchina) quarter disputed by Njap village in Nkambe Sub Division and Kamine village in Misaje Sub Division, is hereby granted.

 Artilce 2: The effects of the said Prefectoral order No 094/PO/E.27/C.111/SASC (supra) are suspended.

Article 3: Cost is reserved.

Article 4: The Registrar-in-chief of this court shall notify the parties and the Legal Department.

In witness whereof, the ruling has been signed by the President of this court

Signed

Maitre Nkuelle Francis Ndene

GREFFIER PRINCIPAL               

JURIETE

source:cameroon journal

See Shocking Stories Of How these 10 Celebs Lost Their Virginity

We all know that the way losing one’s Vir* -Ginity is depicted in movies is vastly different than in reality. In movies, there is no awkwardness, unless it is a comedy, then it is exaggerated to epic proportions. There is no fumbling, the lighting is always perfect, and no one ever bashes their teeth against their partners, or trips over their own pant leg.

Not even celebrities’ Vir* -Ginity stories play out in real life the way they do in the movies or the TV shows they star in. We know almost everything about celebrities, so it is not too surprising that we know a lot of their “first time” stories. After all, we know whether they prefer boxers, briefs or going commando, we know what they look like with no makeup on thanks to #wokeuplikethis selfies, and we know their opinions on pretty much everything thanks to Twitter.

Most celebs have relatable deflowering experiences filled with awkwardness, confusion and embarrassment. However, that does not mean that their tales of losing their Vir* -Ginity will not surprise you. While there are often similarities you can relate to, everyone is different and so are their stories about losing their V-card status.

Some celebs lost their Vir* -Ginity to a partner you would never have thought of, while others got rid of their V-card status at ages that will surprise you. Then there are those stars who had interesting reactions after having S EX for the first time. Of course, there is always the thank-goodness-that-did-not-happen-to-me awkward moment. These stories about 10 celebrities losing their Vir* -Ginity will make you raise your eyebrows.

10. Daniel Radcliffe

You probably find it a bit awkward to think about little Harry Potter losing his Vir* -Ginity. Daniel Radcliffe is almost like a sibling to many people because we watched him grow up on-screen. If you want to preserve your pure memories of Harry Potter, stop reading now. Daniel revealed that he lost his V-card to a much older woman when he was 16 years old. He did not reveal exactly how big the age gap was. He stated it wasn’t a ridiculous difference, but enough to freak some people out. He also admitted that the S EX was pretty good, unlike a lot of people’s first times. And you thought that him going full-frontal in Equus was shocking.

9. Angelina Jolie

Angelina Jolie has always been open about her past. She has admitted that she “felt S EXual” when she was still at a nursery age. When she was 14 years old, she decided to have S EX with her boyfriend for the first time. However, she stated that the S EX and emotions she was feeling were not enough, so she engaged in some masochistic play in an effort to make herself feel closer to him.

8. Chris Brown

If you think that people having S EX for the first time when they are tweens is young, Chris Brown claims to have lost his Vir* -Ginity before he was in double digits. Chris said that he had S EX for the first time when he was only 8 years old. He explained that he did the deed with a girl who was 14 or 15 years old. If you’re wondering about how he even knew what S EX really was at the age, or about the finer details of things, he and his cousins had watched a lot of adult entertainment so they were all “raring to go.”

7. Chris Evans

Chris Evans’ first time did not have any supremely awkward moments during the act itself, but it was his actions after he lost his Vir* -Ginity that were different from most people’s. After theCaptain America star had S EX for the first time, he said that he raced home then he told his mother he just had S EX. That’s not all. He also wanted to know where the clit was. Who knows what his mom told him, but that is a conversation most people would never want to have with either one of their parents.

6. Lena Dunham

Lena Dunham is known for being candid about, well, pretty much everything and anything, so it is no surprise that she openly discusses the tale of her losing her V-card. Lena talks about the incident in her book “Not That Kind of Girl,” and it sounds like it could be something out of aGirls episode. Lena was in her college dorm room in the middle of doing the deed when one of her friends walked in. Remember, that is why you always knock before entering. The friend saw the guy on top of Lena and realized what was happening and said, “Mazel tov” before leaving. As for the guy, he didn’t know that it was Lena’s first time.

5. Sean “Diddy” Combs

Sean “Diddy” Combs’ first attempt at losing his Vir* -Ginity happened when he was seven years old. He says that he was on top of a girl who was about nine or ten years old, but nothing really happened. However, he did say that his mom and baby sitter “whipped his a$$” after the incident. Diddy would have to wait until he was 13 before he officially lost his V-card status. He likened himself to an adult star because at that point he was watching adult entertainment for so long. Where did he go to do the deed? He stated that you could always get a hotel in the Bronx for an hour, and he made sure he always had enough cash.

4. Russell Brand

Vir* -Ginity tales can often involve one partner being a lot more experienced than the other. In comedian Russell Brand’s case, he lost his Vir* -Ginity to a prostitue. He claims that at 17 years old, he was out of the country with his dad. They met up with three prostitutes and took them back to a hotel room. Just the usual father-son bonding. He may be known to be a lothario now, but Russell says it must have been obvious then that he was a virgin.

3. Tina Fey

Tina Fey is one of the most hilarious women in Hollywood right now and many people would love to trade places with her. However, Tina says that she could not even give her Vir* -Ginity away back in the day. In high school, Tina said that she had people over at her house to play the game Celebrity, instead of having them over to fool around. TheSaturday Night Live alum says that she was 24 years old before she finally lost her Vir* -Ginity. She actually ended up losing her V-card to her now-husband Jeff Richmond. They have been married for almost 15 years and have two daughters together.

2. Lil Wayne

A rapper with a S EX story is hardly surprising, but the tale about how Lil Wayne lost his Vir* -Ginity is probably not what you would have expected. Lil Wayne was 11 years old and he was playing board games at a 13-year-old girl’s house. (Apparently Weezy is a big fan of board games.) They were playing Win, Lose or Draw, and the girl wrote, “F*** me.” Lil Wayne did not even know what this meant, besides it being a swear word. The girl then suggested they play another board game, but Wayne had to get it in the closet. When he went looking for the game in the closet, the girl followed him in, and you can guess what happened then.

1. Adriana Lima

Brazilian supermodel Adriana Lima is the ultimate fantasy partner for many people. The Victoria’s Secret model may be used to wearing skimpy lingerie and S EXing it up during the brand’s famous runway show, but she actually kept her Vir* -Ginity until she got married. Just because you are a S EX symbol, it does not mean that you have to have S EX. At 27 years old, Adriana married former NBA player Marko Jaric. They were married for five years and had two adorable daughters together, Valentina and Sienna. Sadly, they decided to split up in 2014.

Source:theRichest

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Neyo's pregnant fiancée Crystal Renay is obviously not a happy woman. Every other day, she post stuff that shows she's unhappy in her relationship with him and then deletes it. *sigh*. See more after the cut...

Twitter to expand tweets from 140 characters to 10,000

Twitter's most beloved features is set to change. The company is planning to extend its 140-character limit to as many as 10,000, according to a person familiar with the matter. Twitter’s fans were quick to complain that such a change, expected to be announced by the end of March, would spoil the brevity and speed of the real-time service.
The character limit that forces users to pen snappy tweets could give way to the longer essays found on Facebook. It could transform Twitter into more of a public blogging platform rather than one that is succinct and well-suited to quips and breaking news headlines.

This person said, however, that Twitter Inc. is aiming to retain the look and feel of the user timeline. For tweets that are longer than 140 characters, users will have to click and expand to see the rest of the text. As users write beyond the 140-character limit, Twitter will signal to them that they have crossed the threshold as a way to encourage brevity.

In a tweet on Tuesday after the news spilled out, co-founder and CEO Jack Dorsey tweeted a screenshot of text, 1,317 characters with spaces, explaining his thinking behind the expansion. “We’ve spent a lot of time observing what people are doing on Twitter, and we see them taking screenshots of text and tweeting it,” Mr. Dorsey wrote. “Instead, what if that text…was actually text? Text that could be searched.  Text that could be highlighted. That’s more utility and power.” Despite the change, Mr. Dorsey said Twitter will “never lose that feeling” of speed, creativity and brevity.

"Despite the lamentations that the change will alter the spirit of Twitter, the truth is that users have been clawing for a longer character limit for some time. Loyal users often create so-called tweetstorms where they string a series of tweets together by replying to them in numerical succession. Users have also gone around the character restriction by attaching screenshots of longer text to their tweets.

In July 2015, Twitter expanded the 140-character limit on private messages to 10,000.

Twitter has been doing a bit of soul-searching to jump-start user growth ever since the return of Mr. Dorsey as CEO in July. The debate to increase the character limit has been in the works since as early as September.

Source: WSJ/Twitter blog

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Gumsu Abacha exposes woman who wants her billionaire husband

Yesterday Gumsu Abacha Fadil, daughter of former Military Head of State, Sani Abacha, shared the photo above of her Cameroonian billionaire husband, Mohamadou Bayero Fadil on her instagram page and one of her followers who was interested decided to ask for his number. See the lady's messages to Gumsu and her clap back after the cut after the cut...

 

Willow Smith defends her brother, Jaden, wearing skirt in LV women campaign

Last week, Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith's son Jaden raised eyebrows after he was named the face of the Louis Vuitton 2016 Spring/Summer Women's Wear Collection. In a post on instagram featuring a photo from Jaden's LV ad campaign, his younger sister, Willow wrote on the constraints of perceived gender roles...don't know where these little ones learn all this from...

Photos of Davido in Hospital

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Nollywood actress Oge Okoye speaks on why she's been awol in movies

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Q- It's been long we saw you in movies, are you diversifying? 

Oge - No am not...just taking my time now to streamline.

Q- So what exactly are u doing now? Or we should ask you, streamlining on what?

Oge - It's for my personal consumption for now...thanks.

Lassa fever kills nursing mother and her two weeks old baby in Port Harcourt

The outbreak of Lassa fever in Nigeria has spread to Port Harcourt, the Rivers state capital where a nursing mother and her two-week-old baby have been confirmed to have died of the deadly viral disease. This comes after the Taraba state government last week confirmed the outbreak of the disease in their state.

Rivers State Commissioner for Health, Dr. Theophilus Odagme, while confirming the death of the mother and child said

“First incident happened between December 30, 2015, and January 1, to a mother and later to her two weeks old child. Yesterday, at about 10:00 pm, I received a call that a mother and child died in a hospital following similar and serious fever which killed them and was suspected to be Lassa fever. After series of test conducted on them, it was confirmed they died of the disease.”.

He said that contact tracing had begun and sensitisation of health care providers was ongoing to address the disease. Lassa fever is a deadly viral disease that is transmitted by infected rodents. The virus is usually transmitted after exposure to infected rodents and also through direct contact with a person that has been infected with the virus.

Precautionary measures to avert being infected include ensuring a clean, rodent-free environment, putting food in rodent proof containers and wearing protections such as masks, gloves, gowns among others.

Guys Spice up your relationship – See these 10 Things She Wants You To Do More Often In Bed (Photos)

A lot of women have trouble verbalizing what they truly want in the bedroom. Although women tend to like keeping a clean reputation and being respected, sometimes getting downright dirty is exactly what they need. Men don’t believe women to be as imaginative as them when it comes to S Ex and boy are they mistaken. Oftentimes women don’t want to tell a man what they want because they don’t want to give off the impression that they are not being pleased – that is where this article comes in.

Women are just as much S Exual beings as men and our generation is finally accepting this fact. Today’s society encourages women to have a healthy S Ex drive, however that doesn’t mean all women are comfortable talking about their S Ex lives. These are ten of the things she wants you to do more in the bedroom. Every woman is different and every woman enjoys different S Exual acts, but the following are ten things most women can agree to want more of.

As previously mentioned, some women get shy and uncomfortable talking about what they want more of, which they shouldn’t. If a man is sleeping with a woman he should make sure she is comfortable enough to tell him what she wants, and if she hasn’t you should bring it up to her!

10. Dirty Talk 

Although this is a grey area for many, let’s get real – women love dirty talk and men rarely give it to them. The reason why women love dirty talk is simple; women are vocal and imaginative beings. Contrary to popular belief, women don’t want to hear sweet nothings whispered in their ears, women want you to get downright dirty. Start with the basics and gauge her responses. Ask her what she likes, ask her what her fantasies are and ask her what she wants you to do to her. In no time the two of you will be comfortable talking dirty with one another.

9. Switch It Up 

Women tend to get bored easily in the bedroom and a lot of the time we wish our men switched it up a little more. Trying new positions creates a new experience between you and your partner and it is a great way of discovering each other’s needs. Women are afraid to bring this up to men because they don’t want their lover to think they aren’t satisfied. It’s not that we aren’t satisfied, it’s that we are craving something new. There are so many fun things your partner and you can do to switch it up when it comes to getting physical, you just need to take a risk and try something new. Chances are she will be into it.

8. Keep The Romance Alive 

A lot of men get comfortable at a certain stage of the relationship and their chivalrous side tends to fade out. What men need to understand is that romantic gestures turn on women whether we admit to it or not. Every woman’s perception of romance is different. For some women romance is a romantic dinner followed by a horse and buggy ride through Central Park and for other women it is bringing their favorite white wine and chick flick to their place for a night in. Whatever your woman likes, do not forget it because you may not realize, but sometimes the pre-game is what really turns her on most, and trust me, men, the reward will be worth it.

7. Don’t Only Kiss Her On Her Mouth 

Yes, we like to be kissed on our mouth, but we also love being kissed all over our body. For many women, being kissed on their necks is a huge turn on, however, all women have different places that they like to be kissed. Kissing should not be reserved solely for lips. Kiss her thighs, her neck and her stomach. Being kissed anywhere during S Ex is perceived as a sign of care and women like to know that the person they are sleeping with is making sure she is comfortable.

6. Tell Her What You Like 

If a woman is sleeping with you, chances are she wants to please you as much as possible. Women wish men vocalized what they liked during S Ex so they can focus and do it more. Although most of the time a woman can tell what drives her man crazy, it is nice to get some reassurance from your partner. Women like to know that what they are doing is good, not only in S Ex but also in life. They want the acknowledgment that they are doing the job right and as a man you should always make her feel that she is. Telling her what you want is not something you should be afraid to do because it is something she wants you to do!

Guys Spice up your relationship – See these 10 Things She Wants You To Do More Often In Bed (Photos)

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5. Rough Her Up 

I know men are brought up with the morals and values that hitting a woman is bad, which it is. However, when you are having S Ex with someone, those rules kind of go out the window. A lot of women get really turned on by being roughed up a little, so men, don’t be afraid, chances are she has been dying for you to pull her hair. Women, whether they admit it or not, are turned on when a man takes control of her. Many women enjoy being put in their place behind closed doors, especially in the bedroom.

4. More For Eplay 

Women love For Eplay for numerous reasons. First, for a woman, For Eplay is a lot of fun. We love teasing our men and almost making them beg to be inside us. What a lot of men don’t realize also is that it is easier to get a girl to climax during For Eplay. Men tend to want to fast-forward the previews and get straight to the featured film, however for many the previews are the best part. For Eplay is something that should be done regardless of the amount of time you have been dating someone. I mean a quickie is always fun, but For Eplay should never be neglected.

3. Domination 

Women love being in control of every situation they are in, which is why they love being able to dominate their S Exual partner. There is something extremely empowering for a women to be able to get a man begging for them, literally. However, domination goes both ways. Since women tend to always be in control, it is nice to sometimes have zero control. It takes a lot for a women to let herself be fully dominated, but if you make her feel comfortable enough, chances are it could be what was missing in your love life all along!

2. Spontaneity 

There is something so hot about having unconventional S Ex with your partner. Relationships tend to get repetitive and something that your girl needs is a little spontaneity. Come up behind her in the kitchen while she is cooking or in the laundry room when she is folding and lay it on her. It is important for any relationship to keep the S Ex fun and alive, couples often get into ruts and this is a great way of getting out of one. If you guys are really adventurous, try having S Ex in a public place, the thrill and excitement that you can get caught at any minute is sure to spice things up for the two of you.

1. Return The Favor 

Let’s be real, women spend half of their relationship in between your legs and most guys don’t realize that we want you to return the favor. Oral S Ex is great for both men and women, but often times women get nervous asking for it. Men rarely have to ask for it, women just automatically go there, but for a lot of men, they don’t think of instantly doing the same. Men don’t realize that often times if they don’t go down on you the woman thinks it is something wrong with them. So men, just return the favor, trust me you will only be rewarded in the end.

Source:TheRichest